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I know i don't have the rights to give people advise about relationships after i've been through number of attempts of failed relationships. I know I have never been in a relationship long enough to lecture people about who they should love. I know that people have uncontrollable desires to be with someone even if they know it's just infatuation. I know that even when people say they don't like you for your appearance , but deep deep down..looks still matters. I don't like how social media always potrays perfect relationships where people think this is how a relationship should be. It has brainwashed the mind of the teenagers making them to have an expectation as a BF/GF should do . Life is simple, you just need to do what you think is right instead of doing what society think is right.
A stereo typical relationship will be whereby two people texting to each other about how much they loved each other . It's not a wrong thing , maybe telling your bae " I love you "10 times a day will supposingly strengthen your relationship . I don't know ? But I know that's not in my case . For me , I'm not the type of person who show affection through verbal . Honestly , I have never ever utter the word " I Love You " to anyone before, maybe in text yea? Telling my Bf i love you is just the most cringe-y thing i can ever do . Maybe other are just too used to saying it that sometimes it becomes a routine and it's meaningless ..or maybe sometimes "I Love You" is used as a word to remind each other that they mean something to them .
But In life I live with this motto believing that every human is bound to have 1 soul mate . I believe that everyone have different perspective of our "Perfect" partner so that we won't steal each other's partner . I believe that break up happen for a reason , sometimes you just need to let it go , and find your own one instead of clingy on to someone else's soulmate , don't you think ? I know sometimes it can be heart - tearing to leave someone you have spend so much time with more than anyone else, but sometimes you just need to remember that someone is out there looking for someone just like you ,your partner might look ugly to the society but , god why are you the only one who can see the goddess beauty in her/he ? do you have like some kind of special eyes ? nah , that's what I call FATE . I honestly think that people shouldn't try so hard to find love but instead let love find you . Trying too hard find "the one" could just make u look very desperate and that is a Major Turn Off for most girls.
I heard of an 18 year old girl falling for a 58 year old man, it attracted many attention from the public , but honestly love have no boundaries , it can either be the typical type where you fall for someone of an opposite gender or someone of the same gender as you or someone of different race or someone that is older than you or someone that is younger than you . But it's such a cruel world that society favors the norm , shunning the rest for falling in love .
I'll write whatever I want , go ahead and judge me however you like BUT negative comments will not be tolerated :)